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donteatacowman:

On how to stop sucking?

Because I don’t like bugging people, I really don’t, and I don’t like complaining all the time about how I wish I were dead. I look at other people and wonder why THEY manage to want to survive in a lot more hopeless circumstances than mine.

And I like having friends and…

You just have to change your mindset. It  might be hard at first, but you just have to think more positively. Not a single person is entirely confident and has no insecurities. Those people that don’t seem hopeless to you are happy because they embrace what they have.

If you like having friends then that’s awesome. Don’t worry about losing your friends. If they’re there now, then you’ve got them! If they ever leave, then there are always more to come. Friends are everywhere and you will always find them no matter what. There are other people who struggle with this, I for one do. To a random stranger it may seem like I have tons of friends, but truthfully I only have a few that I know will stick up for me and will always be there. Those friends are hard to find so it may take a bit of time.

There’s nothing that you are doing that is considered “wrong.” If you really want to go on a search for friends, go to places that suit your interests. Those places will always have people like you that are interested in similar things. It’ll create an instant bond and a great start to a friendship. If your thing is art, go to an exhibit, an art class, or art clubs. If it’s science fiction, go to a convention, join some chat rooms, strike up a conversation about the star wars t-shirt some guy’s wearing. There are many places out there to find people with the same interests.

If there’s anything you need help finding, let me know. I’ll be glad to listen and give more advice (assuming you liked this one).